the first of many "lasts"

I just had lunch with Christian and it was the "last" time I'll see him until I return. Saying goodbye has been a weird experience so far. I feel like I'm in denial, as if I'm going on a vacation but I'll be back sooner than a year.

Lunch was awesome, he bought! What a gentleman! Anyway, we were talking about both of our separate futures. Topics circled around what would change while I'm gone, where I'll be in a year and where he thinks he'll be in a year.

Christian was my first "bro" when I got to San Francisco. Every guy needs a go-to wing-man on their home turf and when I got to San Francisco I was lucky to be put on his kickball team. The funny part of this "wing man" thing is that we're both in very stable & lengthly relationships right now. Looks like we didn't let each other down?

So, back to the "lasts." I'm headed to Boston this weekend to see my brother, sister-in-law niece & nephew for the "last" time until I return. Things are starting to feel very final and I'm still in a daze of acceptance and denial.

Thankfully I've been able to put a lot of things in order. Here is a little list of the things that have been keeping me busy in my free time as I prep for this trip.

1. Visas: India (check), Australia (check), Vietnam (pending), Bali (get at airport), New Zealand (get at airport), Thailand (get at airport), S. Africa (pending)... the list goes ON and ON
2. Immunizations & drugs: I've gotten six shots, malaria pills, altitude pills, stomach sensitivity (think india) pills, antibiotics & pain meds
3. Packing list: I needed a LOT of stuff for this trip. Some of the things that I've enjoyed looking into are; mosquito netting, DEET products, sun hats (stylish yet practical), sleeping bag liner (we're in summer the whole way so we don't need a sleeping bag), DSLR camera, new 18-200mm lens for DSLR, 11" macbook air (yup, I dove RIGHT in), pacsafe stuff (exomesh stuff! + travel safe) AND cool undies!
4. MOVING! Ahhh! I leave in 14 days and I have to get EVERYTHING out of my apartment. It reminds me of when I came out here from Boston about 18 months ago. Wow, packing is the WORST!
5. Having many "lasts." That includes friends, coworkers and yup even family... I guess its either convenient or more stressful that all of this stuff is happening on top of Christmas.

OH! I wanted to give everyone my new phone number: 415-347-5863

The deal is that # is hooked up to my google voice account. When you text or call it the folks down at Google will forward your calls or texts onto whatever phone number you want. I signed up for a Skype phone number that will be called by google when you call the number above. Basically this gives you all an easy way to call me while I'm traveling. I'm hoping for late night texts, picture texts and if I'm lucky drunken dialing galore with lots of juicy gossip!

If those past three don't suit you, I guess we could have a regular conversation as well. I'll just need to get my iPod Touch to a wifi area to accept the call.

ALSO, I can facetime with people! So if you have a mac computer, 4th generation ipod touch or the newest iphone we can talk for FREE while I'm traveling.

More information on facetime is here: http://www.apple.com/mac/facetime/

Thats all for now, more to follow later...

Sunday Night Sentimental Thoughts

What a weekend!

On top of packing, planning (visa, flights, hostel bookings...) AND work (yup, still working to make as much cash as possible before the trip)... Well I guess the most important thing has been spending time with the people I love here in SF.

Its really crazy to think how much my life has changed over the past 18 months since I moved to SF. I've made great new life friends, seen a whole different part of the country and grown as an individual.

That might be the biggest part of the equation for me that has become so apparent here in the last days of my "mid-20's SF" life chapter.

Leaving the east coast was strangely a big emotional decision for me. I felt at ease there. I had family close, good friends and had mentally decided I wanted to live there when I was younger. Boston was amazing but it was part of a progression in life that pushed me to seek change.





Thus when I had the opportunity to "go west my young son..." I took it and ran.

Little did I realize at the time how much I would grow and learn through the numerous people here in SF that would touch my life.

I can honestly say I'm the happiest version of "me" here in SF than I've ever been. SF friends ROCK!

So to all of those this weekend who surprised me with a bottomless mimosa lunch and an afternoon of kareoke, THANK YOU!

I have only been surprised a few times before in my life and this was by far the best!

Your warm wishes and off-key songs (lol) meant more to me than you can imagine and I'll be thinking about those twelve hours of boozing for a long time.

It was a fitting event since it was during our "kickball practice sunday" that I first realized I was going to be really happy SF and couldn't wait to become friend with all of these awesome people.

A big shout out to Ariana, Ari and Alicia for handling the legwork of the event. I love you guys.

17 days. Its getting a bit sentimental, but its also getting really exciting.